Love What You Love Unabashedly…Joy Is Contagious!
When you’re excited about something, don’t be afraid to share it…no matter how silly it may come across to others.
I love when people are excited about what they’re excited about.
I don’t have to be into whatever they’re excited about, I’m just excited they’re excited.
I follow a woman in her early to mid thirties on Instagram who loves Justin Bieber. Like she’s dressed up as him for Halloween at least four times!
I don’t have to be obsessed with Bieber to enjoy her joy of him.
Her unabashed excitement, joy and fun with it is contagious!
This “loving what I love” is how I found myself saying Yes to a “Behind The Chutes” tour of the San Antonio Rodeo.
One version of me wanted to think it was silly to go on a tour of something I’ve been around most of my life (rodeo).
Another version was excited to go, but thought I might keep it to myself since I have a lot of friends who live the lifestyle and might think it was silly.
And the version that won is the version that unabashedly embraced my excitement around becoming a …
KEEP READINGThe Magic of God/The Universe
I have a fun, cute story to share with you on the magic of The Universe/God and changing the energy connected with something through new intentions…
Back in January I did a yard sale (as some context, I sell other people’s stuff so I’m not personally attached to the things I receive and sell), where a framed, vintage western picture made it into the sale.
I was initially just excited tot sell it, but, as the day rolled on, my mom began to paint a picture of using it to decorate our mantle with a winter western theme.
We decided we’d do that if it didn’t sell.
As the day rolled on, a few people asked about it, but no takers.
I began to think it wasn’t going to sell and started becoming attached to the vision my mom has painted…but I didn’t remove it from the sale.
Then, as I was packing up, a car pulled in and a woman got out who had her sights set on the picture (she must have been at the sale earlier).
Since it was still sitting in the sale, I couldn’t not sell it to her.
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Creating Agreements Based In Your Hear’s Guidance (not what you “should” do)
If you find it difficult saying No to requests (whether this happens across the board or only in certain situations with certain people)…
Or if you’re a recovering people pleaser who automatically says No from an aggressive, protective place, fearing you’ll fall back into people pleasing…I created The People Pleaser’s Guide To Reclaiming Your Personal Power to help you:
~ CONFIDENTLY, POWERFULLY and PEACEFULLY agree to what you desire to agree to and just as easily say No to the things you want to say No to (how freeing does this feel?!).
~ Create relationship dynamics where you feel like you have space to say No (ahhh, what relief!)
~ Say, what you need to say, when you need to say it…all without contracting!Can you imagine no longer seething over agreeing to things you don’t want to agree to because you feel the power to express how you truly feel about it?
No more shrinking from saying how you truly feel about the request.
No more feeling trapped in an obligation to say Yes.
No more feeling like No is never truly an option.
No more fearing someone being mad at you or disappointed in you.
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Transforming People Pleasing
In case you missed it, last week I released my very first digital guide called The People Pleaser’s Guide To Reclaiming Your Personal Power!
You can grab a copy here.
I’m truly thrilled and grateful every time I see a purchase come through, because I know the guide just got into the hands of someone who physically and energetically said “I’m ready for a change.”
You may or may not relate to being a people pleaser, so I thought I’d break down who this guide is for…
It’s for the person who, across the board, finds it difficult to say NO to things that are asked of you.
You feel obligated to say Yes, but resent it.
You feel trapped in this obligation.
You feel guilty if you say NO so it never truly feels like an option.
All of which causes you to feel overlooked and taken advantage of.
It’s also for the person who only finds it difficult to say NO in certain situations or with certain people.
In most situations, you feel free to agree to what you want to agree to and to say …
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