Have you ever had a situation or relationship dynamic, where you stressed yourself out to the point of over thinking every little thing that you said or should have said?  Maybe you were over thinking the situation as a way of getting a specific result that you desired (that’s called manipulation).  Or maybe you were just worried about setting off the other person’s trigger, so you set about trying to tip-toe around said trigger.  When we enter into situations and relationships in these manners, we are in what I refer to as “navigation mode”.

The problem with going into navigation mode is that we start to filter what we say and do through our fear of not attaining our desired outcome.  Fear becomes our governing force.  It takes us out of a place of purity— being and acting from our heart without concern for the ripple effect—and aligns us with our false self.  When we’re over thinking what we should say or do, we are blocking the Divine from easily flowing through us and bringing the words (or silence), action (or non-action), and energy that the given situation calls for.

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