The People Pleaser’s Guide To Reclaiming Your Personal Power
Reminder that the price of The People Pleaser’s Guide To Reclaiming Your Personal Power is going up Friday, March 1st, at Midnight.
It’s currently$33 and will be going to $44.
You can purchase a copy HERE.
Before having the tools and understanding I share in this guide, I felt at a loss for what to do when I was around someone who didn’t freely give me the space to say No to a request without them taking it personally.
For the most part, all of the major relationships in my life freely gave me this space.
I didn’t even realize I had the space until I found myself in a new situation where saying No caused the other person to take it personally.
They got upset, which didn’t feel good.
In fact, it felt confrontational, which, for me, was scary and uncomfortable.
Keeping the peace felt like keeping them from getting upset by meeting their expectations, instead expressing how I truly felt.
This maintained an outer peace, but my inner world was anything but peaceful.
I was frustrated, seething inside.
I resented feeling trapped in this situation and …
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If you’re someone who feels like you can’t ever say No…
…where you feel overlooked, taken advantage of, slighted, not seen, under-appreciated and not valued,because you feel obligated to say Yes when you really desire to say No.
You agree to commitments, but rather than feeling like you’re coming from your heart, you feel committed out of a sense of obligation, which feels frustrating.
You resent being asked, but can’t find the courage to say No.
In fact, saying No, never feels like an option because doing so would be letting others down and disappointing someone else feels harder than just sucking it up and saying Yes.
You think to yourself, next time I’m going to say No, but when it comes down to it, you can’t risk the other person thinking ill of you…
…nor can you leave them with the burden of having to take care of whatever is being …
The Biggest Lie You’ve Been Sold
The biggest lie you’ve been sold is that you’re unworthy.
This single belief is all it takes to enslave humanity under the power of those who have decided they are worthy (but are not of pure intent).
And all it takes to break these chains is to DECIDE you are worthy.
You always have been.
You just innocently believed in a lie that said you weren’t because it served a few to propagate this belief.
Can you imagine how the world changes when “the many” DECIDE in favor of their worthiness?
“The many” are predominantly good hearted people.
Can you imagine what good hearted people who are FREE from the invisible prison of a belief in unworthiness can create and contribute to the world?
Can you imagine the inspiration that would be freed up to flow through so many good hearted conduits?
Can you imagine the Visions that would be empowered to be upheld and walked out?
Can you imagine the unending flow of abundance, creativity, sharing, innovation, etc. that can be unleashed if we as a collective would simply give up beliefs in unworthiness?
There have been a growing …
Setting Boundaries w/ Grace, Peace & Power
Guys, we need to talk about setting boundaries from a place of power versus a reaction against the pattern we don’t like…
My whole jam is about doing things from a place of spiritual and emotional maturity.
So when it comes to setting a boundary, it’s import to:
Have compassion for the other person’s unconsciousness (the pattern of behavior you’re unwilling to allow in your space), but be firm in setting a boundary against this unconscious pattern being dumped on you.
A compassionate stance allows you to accept where they are in their journey (the unconscious expression of a dysfunctional pattern) while simultaneously saying it’s not allowed in your personal space.
You’re not trying to change their behavior, but you are saying it’s not allowed in your personal space.
This is energetically different from attacking them for the behavior in an attempt to get them to change it.
The act of attack comes from your own unconsciousness, whereas compassionate understanding of their behavior comes from a more conscious place.
You still get to set a boundary against allowing the behavior in your personal space, but it’s done from a place …
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