Inner healing is so so so important…

Not too long ago I witnessed the deterioration of a relationship between two people who care about one another, because they could no longer see where the other person was coming from (something that inner healing helps us know, understand and work with).

Instead, over a period of months, each person began to accumulate instance after instance that confirmed why they were right in how they saw the recurring situation.

Which, of course, resulted in acting from that sense of being right in how they perceived what was occurring.  

One was frustrated. The other was hurt. Neither could see the driving force in the other’s behavior.

One barked words of frustration believing they were setting a boundary to prevent whatever actions were causing the frustration.

The other didn’t understand the frustration or the boundary, believing they were acting with an intention help.

So the frustration felt confusing and hurtful. Cause for resentment.

But the frustrated party never knew the depth of hurt their words landed on. 

They only heard reactions based in anger, which fueled their frustration. 

(Because the angry reaction was interpreted as not …

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