My standards for interacting with others are so embedded in me that I’ve never really had to set boundaries to clear myself from relationships that aren’t good for me. 

I just naturally move away from them before they can develop.

You don’t have to manage boundaries when your standards are where you desire them to be.

When you have solid, embodied standards your world easily reflects this.

In my general expression, I’m gentle, loving, open, joyful, fun and free in my expression.

There’s no “hardness” in embodying standards that keep me from having to constantly manage boundaries.

But the boundary is firmly there.

It’s embedded in my energy without me having to give attention to it.

This is what allows me to be soft, loving, gentle, open and free in my expression.

There’s no chasing the validation that causes us to “want” to be liked, to belong, to be loved.

I don’t chase these things. I don’t alter my general expression for these things. 

But I have these things because I gave them to myself first.

And in doing so, I attracted friends who did the same for themselves. 

I …

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