Your relationship with yourself is what creates your general power dynamic with each relationship that you have. 

If you have a strong relationship with yourself, you tend to have an equal power dynamic in your relationships with others (especially the ones you attract once you’re in your power, meaning relationships prior to this and family dynamics may not represent this). 

If you have a bit of a disjointed or messy relationship with yourself, you’ll see that dynamic play out in other relationships in your life. 

You’ll see an unequal power dynamic either as you being the dominant one or you being the one who’s dominated. 

Being able to hold your power, whether others have more or less power than you, is what enables you to enter into healthy relationship dynamics. 

You don’t have to have equally developed personal power for this to occur. 

But you do have to have a baseline capacity of holding your own power (which relates to your baseline relationship with yourself regarding knowing your own value and worth). 

From here you can continue to deepen and refine it. 

But this baseline needs to be met first. 

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