Your Standards Matter


March 4, 2025
Personal Responsibility

Your standards matter. 

Without them you’re likely not being very intentional with how you carry yourself. 

Instead, you’re acting — possibly REACTING — from a default mode…

…one that may not be serving you. 

And you’re suffering because of it. 

Your peace is taking a hit. 

Your relationships are taking a hit. 

And in this vacuum of space that COULD be filled with peace, power and greater emotional intelligence…

…you’re filled with dysregulated emotions that are wreaking havoc on your wellbeing and spilling out onto others, where this cycle continues uninterrupted. 

It’s time to break the cycle. 

For your own peace, health and general wellbeing. 

For the benefit of your personal relationships and anyone you interact with. 

And for the benefit of the whole (all energy put into the world impacts the collective). 

Most haven’t been taught how to do this inner work. 

We’ve simply been repeating what’s been modeled to us. 

Maybe you won the lottery in this area, maybe you didn’t. 

But learning how to do this work has nothing to do with whether or not you won the lottery and everything to do with your willingness to learn new skills in this area. 

Skills that change how you carry yourself and interact with others. 

Skills that ensure those you interact with win the lottery of being in relationship with you!

You become someone who operates from peace, power, emotional intelligence and spiritual maturity. 

And all who interact with you BENEFIT. 

I created two guides to support you in this process.

They’re packed with insights meant to raise your level of awareness regarding your own nature, and that of others, so you can more clearly define where you desire your standards for interacting with others to be. 

Each guide covers a similar foundation, regarding how our inner nature works and the choices for change available to us, but from two different angles. 

One supports people who tend to lose their power (undefined standards) through people pleasing

And the other supports people who tend to react more aggressively to unmet expectations

In this latter scenario, you have undefined standards around interacting with others from a place of peace and power. 

Instead, you’re in an unconscious pattern of reacting from feeling your power has taken a hit and you’re aggressively trying to reclaim it (instead of operating from never having lost your power). I show you how to change this in this guide. 

These guides are pure gold. They take you through the exact process I having been using for years to refine my personal power, emotional intelligence and spiritual maturity any time something seemingly takes me out from feeling centered in peace and power.  

You can learn more about each guides HERE.  

To stepping into our most refined selves and to being the example others calibrate to!

Always Shine Brightly,

Shanna

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