Confidence Is A Choice
Have you ever come across something that just stops you in your tracks and instantly changes how you see things?
Years ago I was scrolling through my newsfeed when I saw Amanda Frances post to following simple, yet profound statement:
Confidence is a choice.
I’d never thought of it that way.
It seemed like something you either had or you didn’t have.
You’d either gained confidence through your life experiences or you hadn’t (which is a quite limiting perspective to come from).
Seeing it as a choice changes things.
It empowers you to choose it whether you have a history of feeling it or not.
It empowers you to take control of the energy you embody and exude by consciously stepping into the energetic qualities you desire to feel and express.
It empowers you to look at and shift whatever is keeping you from choosing your desired internal state (in this case, confidence) so you can embody it.
We’re NEVER at the mercy of a disempowered state.
It may feel like it but that’s often because we haven’t learned to see where choice exists in, well, all.of.our.choices.
Which is the entire point of empowerment.
It’s to see another choice where you previously didn’t.
It’s to expand your spectrum of options by no longer limiting yourself to the state you’ve become accustomed to.
The more conscious you become to both the choices you’re making AND the alternatives that are available, the MORE EMPOWERED you become to make a new choice.
Confidence is always an available choice.
It doesn’t require permission or proof of worthiness to choose it (which appears to be the case prior to seeing it as a choice).
It just requires you to claim it and behave accordingly.
Part of claiming it might require you to shift some ideas about yourself and/or about how life works for you.
But that’s still within your control and wherewithal to shift these ideas.
I’m here to help you identify and shift any ideas about yourself or how life works for you that aren’t currently serving where you desire to go and/or how you desire to express yourself.
Whatever it is you desire to do, be or create, you have the power to tap in and work with your own energy.
You have the power to change how you see yourself.
You have the power to adjust your own self-image to support what it is you desire to do, be and create.
You have the power to change your belief system to one that supports you in believing in and following your heart’s desires.
You have the power to change how you experience life by changing how you show up…the energy you embody, the thoughts you think, the beliefs you lock in regarding how life works, and the faith you hold.
All of this can be consciously chosen and intentionally embodied in ways that support you.
I’m here to help you identify and release beliefs and ways of being that do not serve you and adopt new ones that do serve you.
I’m here to help you shift your stories around why things can’t or haven’t worked for you to much more supportive beliefs around what’s possible for you.
I’m here to help you embody the energy of these beliefs so your actions are backed by this new way of seeing.
It’s within you to change how you see yourself and what’s possible for you.
It’s within you to create a new, more aligned path…one that supports the unfolding of your heart’s desires.
I’m here to help you exercise your power to do this by supporting you in stepping into a deep belief in yourself and your capacity to walk out the desires of your heart.
In my one-on-one coaching package we look at what’s keeping you from believing in and embodying the version of yourself who is living a life designed around your heart’s desires in order to move into a more aligned way of seeing and being.
What I know is you are innately worthy of the desires of your heart. These desires have been placed in you because they are meant for you to live out their unfolding.
And I know you’re capable of being the version of yourself who lives a life aligned with your good hearted desires.
The work we do together looks at what’s currently standing in the way of you fully believing these things.
With a willingness to see yourself and/or a past experience differently, you have all that you need to make these perceptual shifts about yourself.
Shifts can happen quickly when you’re willing to see things differently.
It often simply takes being exposed to another way of seeing.
Things can really speed up when your heart’s desires are bigger than the things that need to be shifted.
If you feel called to work with me, it would be an honor to serve you in this process.
My one-on-one coaching package includes 4 one hour sessions for $600. (Payment plan available).
The intention is to meet once a week to begin immersing yourself in this new way of seeing and interacting in the world.
As we clear the old stories and ways of being, we make space for new possibilities.
I love seeing the breakthroughs and shifts that occur when doing this work.
If you’re ready to work together (or have any questions about the coaching package), email me at shannacovey@gmail.com and let me know.
I can’t wait to see what unfolds for you!
Always Shine Brightly,
Shanna
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