Develop. Deepen. Refine.


March 18, 2025
Personal Responsibility

You have to be able to work effectively with your own power in every situation that shows up in life…

Are you shrinking in certain situations?

Overly reactive in others?

How are you working with your own power to respond from peace and firmness in what you truly desire from a situation?

How are you handling yourself when you feel spikes in your nervous system?

Are you reacting like a balloon that’s quickly running out of air (power) as soon as something occurs that throws you off balance?

Is the loss of air (personal power) causing you to cave into yourself or shout with every last bit of dissipating air?

Or are you calm inside yourself, able to respond with a clear mind, emotional intelligence and spiritual maturity?

This is a skill that can be learned and developed. 

In fact, I believe it’s imminent we develop the capacity to handle ourselves with greater and greater maturity. 

That we developed the capacity to lead ourself through any scenario and maintain our peace and inner power. 

Holding inner power requires maturity. 

Emotional maturity (emotional intelligence). 

Spiritual maturity (greater wisdom, more compassion, deeper self-awareness).

Nervous system regulation (emotional regulation based in a deeper awareness and embodiment of the above). 

Learning to utilize your power is one of the strongest inner assets you can develop, no matter what your role is in life. 

It changes how you know and relate to yourself, which impacts every other relationship (and encounter) in your life. 

It strengthens you. It sets you a part. 

You become an example for others to calibrate to. 

You become self-led. 

No longer at the mercy of how another “makes” you feel about yourself, but, instead…

You’re in charge of how you feel about yourself. 

You can’t be controlled, dominated or manipulated when you’re in charge of your own perception. 

This is raw power. 

It’s available to everyone. 

But it needs to be developed, deepened and refined. 

I can help you do this. 

I have two guides designed to help you raise your standards around how you see yourself/your value, how you carry yourself and how you interact with others. 

They’re tools designed to help you understand where your current standards are so you can decide if and how you desire to intentionally raise them. 

They’re packed with insights meant to raise your level of awareness regarding your own nature and that of others. 

Each guide covers a similar foundation, regarding how our inner nature works, but from two different angles. 

One supports people who tend to lose their power (wobbly relationship with self) through people pleasing

And the other supports people who tend to react more aggressively when their expectations aren’t met (also a wobbly relationship with self). 

Both guides support you in increasing and refining your personal power, inner peace, emotional intelligence and spiritual maturity. 

They are pure gold. 

You can learn more about each guide HERE

I also have one-on-one coaching sessions and packages available to help you in a more tailored capacity. Message me directly for more information.

To being the example others calibrate to!

Always Shine Brightly,

Shanna

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